5 Signs of a Good Caregiver

5 Signs of a Good Caregiver
09 Apr 2018

When you have a professional caregiver taking care of an aging loved one, it can be difficult to find someone you fully trust with this great responsibility. After all, the care of someone you deeply love is in their hands.

What should come as a relief is that there are a few clear signs that indicate you have found a good caregiver, someone you can trust with this great responsibility and someone who truly cares as much for your loved one as you do. Though this is by no means an all-inclusive list, here are five signs that indicate you are working with a highly skilled and compassionate caregiver. Take a look!

  1. Positive attitude

A good caregiver exhibits a positive attitude, even in the most challenging situations. When caring for a senior adult, there can be many frustrating moments that arise on a daily basis. You want a caregiver that can see through these challenges and find the bright side of the situation. You want someone to lift your spirits as well as your loved one’s by remaining positive and proactively seeking solutions to problems. A positive attitude is an essential quality of a good caregiver! At the Middletown Home, our caregivers spread positivity among one another and to our residents. It’s contagious! When you create a culture of positive attitudes, it’s incredible the difference this makes within a community.

  1. Desire to create deep relationships

Though the core responsibilities of a caregiver may be to attend to the physical needs of your loved one, an exceptional caregiver will also see to the mental and emotional needs as well. This comes by forging a deep relationship with their client, really getting to know them and listening to their stories or answering their questions. How wonderful would it be for your loved one to not only have someone to keep them healthy and safe, but to keep them mentally stimulated and emotionally fulfilled? That’s what everyone should want in a caregiver! At the Middletown Home, our caregivers take great care to build relationships with residents. They often become so close that they feel like family, celebrating holidays and birthdays together and spending countless hours simply talking to one another.

  1. Takes initiative

Thirdly, a good caregiver takes initiative to solve problems and brings them to your attention before you may even know they exist. A caregiver is your eyes and ears when you cannot be with your loved one every day. You want to be able to rely upon them to speak up and alert you of anything they see that may be concerning. A good caregiver is a leader and self-starter who is proactive about the care your loved one receives. At the Middletown Home, our caregivers are encouraged to take initiative to problem solve and take it upon themselves to work with a resident until they find a solution.

  1. Patience, patience, patience!

We can’t overemphasis the importance of a caregiver having ample patience. When caring for a senior adult, it requires near endless patience to continue to show love and compassion through stressful and challenging moments. A good caregiver pours out patience over and over again to make your loved one feel appreciated, secure and loved. At the Middletown Home, our caregivers are carefully selected for their patience and compassion – it’s a skill that simply cannot be trained!

  1. Ability to see what someone CAN do

Finally, a good caregiver is someone who focuses on what their patient CAN do, not what they cannot. You want a caregiver who looks for ways to overcome your aging loved one’s limitations so that they can maintain as much independence as possible and experience a greater quality of life. At the Middletown Home, our caregivers pride themselves on finding creative ways, even through the smallest opportunities, to help our residents regain and maintain as much independence as possible.

Have you experienced working with a quality caregiver? What signs indicated that he or she was a caring and compassionate person? Share your insights by leaving a comment below!



  1. Deb Pearl Says: April 30, 2018 at 3:58 pm

    Thank you for listing the signs of a good caregiver. My family really wants to find one for our grandpa, but we don’t know what to look for. I really like how you mentioned that patience would be a good quality. I think that would be great to have.

  2. Doris Kasold Says: May 9, 2018 at 5:03 pm

    A good caregiver must have the mental stability to handle difficult situations and should not have an
    emotional response to each and everything that comes their way of caregiving. I agree with the positive
    attitude but I would like to add that being proactive along with being positive can go a long way.

    • Marketing Says: May 9, 2018 at 6:28 pm

      Thank you for the comment! Absolutely; a caregiver who is also proactive in their actions is a huge asset.

  3. Patience is the most important and positive attitude and deep relationship towards the client as a a good caregiver

    • Marketing Says: October 5, 2018 at 7:52 am

      Thank you for your comment! You are quite right that patience and attitude are among the top qualities you should look for in a caregiver. We are fortunate to get to see such beautiful patient-caregiver relationships bloom here at the Middletown Home!

  4. Kit hannigan Says: October 17, 2018 at 8:00 pm

    I really like what you said about choosing a caregiver that is patient and passionate about their job. If I were looking for caregivers for my uncle, I will definitely know for sure during the interview if the caregiver will show enough enthusiasm and passion to help the patient live a better life during their senior years. This is a really insightful read about home-care professionals. Thanks!

    • Marketing Says: October 17, 2018 at 8:22 pm

      Thank you for your comment! We definitely encourage families to really get to know their loved ones’ caregivers. It’s important to form a relationship and to be sure this is someone you can trust with your loved one. There is not much else that is this important when it comes to the care of a loved one!

  5. Renz Path Says: November 9, 2018 at 9:50 pm

    Thanks for letting us know that a good caregiver takes the initiative to resolve the problem and bring that up before you may even realize that exists. It is really important for the caregivers to be like the eyes and the ears especially to the elderlies when the loved ones are not around and understand and can respond to their needs at once. My grandmother is often left with only the helper at home so we need to hire the service of a caregiver who could be her eyes and ears and can attend to her at once because her dementia is slowly developing.

    • Thank you for your comment – you are very right that caregivers must be the eyes and ears for our loved ones. It’s a very good idea that you have a helper for your grandmother to attend to her daily needs, so that this isn’t a stress on you or your family. I’m sure it gives you all great peace of mind.

  6. Siena on Brendenwood Says: February 14, 2019 at 2:08 am

    Thank you for sharing such great information. It’s a pleasure to visit here.

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